Friday, 25 May 2012

A Few Thoughts: 沒有走不下去的愛,只有不爭氣的戀人 There isn't a love we can't let go of, just disappointing lovers

Haven't been active recently, been rather busy, going to HK in less than half a month!! :DD Hope everyone's doing well :)

1。】一個男人條件再好,他沒有時間陪你,也是多餘的。
No matter how good a man's condition, if he has no time for you, is unneccessary.

愛情是不可以望梅止渴的,抱著回憶就能度過每一天麼?一個男人願意給女人多少時間,就是他有多愛他。你愛我的話,是可以擠出一點時間的。擠不出時間,是你已經做了抉擇。既然沒有時間,我釋放你吧。同時,也是釋放我自己。
Quenching your thirst by staring at the sea is not what love is, can you live every day just holding onto memories? The amount of time a man is willing to give to a woman, shows how much he loves her. If you love me, then you can find some time for me. If you can't, you've already made a decision. Since there is no time, I choose to set you free. At the same time, I am also setting myself free.

很佩服這類女孩子:當她發現對方不是真心喜歡她,她可以立刻撇脫地分手。其他女人,可能會繼續自己騙自己,一個人苦撐。真正有智慧的女孩子明白愛情是甚麼一回事:愛情,要兩情相悅。你愛他,他不愛你,這段關係就沒意思。肯放手,就是愛自己。耐心一點,等待那個真正兩情相悅的人吧。
I really admire those girls, when she discovers that her significant other doesn't truly love her anymore, who can immediately and swiftly break up. Other women, might continue to lie to themselves, and keep struggling alone. Women with real wisdom will understand what love is: love, requires equivalent feelings from both ends. If you love him, but he doesn't love you, then this relationship is meaningless. Choosing to let go, is to love yourself more. Be patient, and someday you will find the person who loves you equivalent to your love for him.

2。】如果開始下一段感情,我不會再問,喜歡我什麼?也不會問,是認真對待嗎?我會問:三個月後還會爭分奪秒的關心嗎?半年後一句不開心仍舊會陪伴左右嗎?一年後睡不著是還會百度故事在耳邊輕喏嗎?兩年後看見落淚還像第一次那般束手無策嗎?三年四年或者更久,敢不敢一如既往沒有理由的對我疼愛?
When I start my next relationship, I won't ask, "What do you like about me" again. Neither will I ask, "Are you serious about me?" I would ask instead, "After three months, will you still drop everything in a split second worrying about me? After half a year, if I said I was unhappy, like old times be right by my side? After one year, if I can't fall asleep, will you still whisper multitudes of stories by my ear? After two years, will you still be all disoriented and don't know what to do when I shed tears? Three or four or many more years later, will you still love me with no obligation?

3。】別把悲傷掛在嘴上,每個人都有自己的故事。說分手的時候不要吵鬧,畢竟在一起過那麼久。分手他也會難過,只是他比較明智,不想束縛你的或他的明天。好聚好散,以後還是朋友,大家都有自己的無奈。別說你最愛的是誰,人生還很長,誰也無法預知明天。也許你的真愛還在下一秒等著你。
Don't constantly talk about your sadness, everyone has their own story. Don't argue when you break up, it doesn't matter how long you've been together. Breaking up hurts him too, its just that he was smarter, and didn't want to wreak yours or his future. Easy come, easy go, still will be friends, but everyone has their helplessness. Don't say who your most loved one is, life is very long, no one knows what tomorrow will bring. Maybe your true love is waiting for you in the next second.

4。】你不知道,某些時刻,我有多麼難過。你不知道,沒有回應的等待,真的讓人很累。你不知道,我是鼓起了多大的勇氣,才敢唸念不忘。又或者,你不是不知道,只是假裝不知道。都說時光飛逝,其實只是自己的心在變,情在變。都說抵擋不過時間,其實是時間抵擋不過我們的善變。你那麼自私,我那麼傻。
You don't know, in some moments, how unhappy I become. You don't know, waiting for a reply that I'll never get, really makes one tired. You don't know, the courage I had to muster, so that I could forget. Or maybe, it's not that you don't know, you're just pretending you don't. People say that time flies, but it's actually my own heart that's changing, feelings that are changing. People say that it won't last the trials of time, but actually it was just a matter that time couldn't withstand our need to change. Your selfishness, my stupidity.

5。】好男人經得起誘惑,好女人耐得住寂寞。愛可以簡簡單單。但不能隨隨便便。沒有不能在一起的兩個人,只有靠不攏的兩顆心。女人,不要輕易去妥協。
A good man can resist temptation, a good woman can stand loneliness. Love can be simple, but it shouldn't be casual. There aren't two people who can't be together, just two hearts that aren't together. Women, shouldn't compromise so easily.

6。】幸福是什麼?幸福就是牽著一雙想牽的手,一起走過繁華喧囂,一起守候寂寞孤獨;就是陪著一個想陪的人,高興時一起笑,傷悲時一起哭;就是擁有一顆想擁有的心,重複無聊的日子不乏味,做著相同的事情不枯燥……只要我們心中有愛,我們就會幸福,幸福就在當初的承諾中,就在今後的夢想裡。也許幸福就是,陪你走一條叫一輩子的路,跨一座叫奈何的橋,喝一種叫孟婆的湯。也許會累,會疲憊,卻從沒想過放棄;也許沿途風景迷人充滿誘惑,卻彼此保留住最初的感覺;也許會起爭執,會有分歧,卻依然會聽從和默認;也許不能沒分每秒在一起,卻在心裡始終留著位置。
What is happiness? Happiness is holding the pair of hands you want to hold, walking together amongst the hustle and bustle, being together amidst the loneliness; To be with someone you want to be with, share your happy moments, share your unhappy moments; To possess the heart that you wish to possess, continually repeating those meaningless days, doing the same things without getting frustrated... As long as there is love in our hearts, we will be happy, happiness is within those initial promises, within our future dreams. Perhaps happiness is, walking by your side on a road named life, cross a bridge called regret, drink a soup called forget. Perhaps one will become tired, get exhausted, but still never think of giving up; perhaps the road ahead is full of temptation, but you still continue to hold on to those initial feelings; perhaps arguments will arise, and there will be different opinions, but will continue to listen and tolerate; perhaps separation is inevitable, but that special position in my heart will still hold you.

7。】總有人問我什麼是愛情,我覺得愛情就是二十歲的時候,我帶你跟朋友出去玩,你讓我少喝點,我讓你扶著我。四十歲的時候我去上班你讓我把襯衫領子翻出來,我走之前還親你一口。六十歲的時候退休在家,我們盤腿在床上說話解悶,說說下週去哪兒懷舊!
There are always people who ask me what love is, I feel that love at 20, I'll bring you out to play with friends, you help me drink less, and I lean on you. At 40, when I got to work, you help me prepare my clothes, and before I leave for work, I give you a good bye kiss. When I'm 60, retired and at home, we would lie on the bed and talk about anything and everything, talk about where to go for reunions!

8。】每一個現在,都是我們以後的記憶。我們說過的話,做過的事,走過的路,遇過的人,都是我們以後的回憶。我們無須緬懷昨天,不必奢望明天,只要認真地過好每個今天,說能說的話,做可做的事,走該走的路,見想見的人。
Every now, will become our future memories. Everything we say, everything we do, the roads we taken, the people we've met-- all will become part of our memories. There is no need to reminisce our yesterdays, nor is there a need to ponder about tomorrow, we just need to live each day to its fullest: say what you want to say, do what you can do, walk the roads you should walk, and see the people you want to see.

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